Fun Date Activities to Do This National Lover’s Day in Manila

Manila may be many things, but one thing it’s definitely not is boring.

When was the last time you took your Filipino girlfriend out on a whirl around the big city? This coming April 23rd, National Lover’s day, inject a bit of fun and excitement into your relationship by acting out a few fun date activities.

How important is fun in your relationship?

Researcher Dr. John Gottman found that when couples follow the ratio of 5:1 Positive to Negative Communication, they are happier in their relationships. The magic ratio of 5:1 suggests that for every misunderstanding, couples need five affectionate or fun interactions to counterbalance it.

Let me ask you this: do you have this ratio of good and bad interaction between you and your partner? If not, then it is high time to reevaluate the way you communicate with each other. If you hurt each other’s feelings more often than not, then make it a priority to be more positive, playful and fun.

What to remember before going on a fun date

Avoid conflict in your fun times. Conflict and arguments are unavoidable in relationships. But you can’t let your fighting ruin you, so sometimes holding back can save you.

On the night before you do your fun activity together, talk to each other and make it clear that your date is an escape from your day-to-day life.

If you have an unresolved conflict, it’s better to talk it out or give each other a bit of space. If you do this, you can dedicate your day solely for fun and new experiences without stress and strife.

Fun date ideas

Here are a few date ideas that don’t involve any sort of planning and are quite enjoyable.

These are some of the many places to go in Manila when you want to have a good time and let loose once in a while.

Obstacles Courses

Heard of American Ninja Warrior with the salmon ladder, Z wall, jumping bars and the infamous warped wall?

Well if you are both up for this kind of adventure then this place is for you. Sporty or not, you sure will enjoy your time at any obstacle course facilities in Manila. In their course class, they will introduce you to all of the obstacles and teach you proper techniques so even if you are new, you are welcome to their club.

Where to take her: Pretty Huge Obstacles (PHO) is considered the first and largest indoor multi-level obstacle course race in Asia. You can most definitely go there. If you want to awaken the inner ninja in you, you can try Ninja Academy. This is the most complete facility in South East Asia.

If you end up enjoying this obstacle course, you can train together and try competitions. Yay more quality time!

Unique Cinemas

While watching movies on the big screen is a staple among dating couples, it does have a few downsides: uncomfortable seats, stale food, and people crammed next to each other left and right.

So consider going to unique cinemas, where the ambience and comfort are more than worth the price of admission.

Where to take her: Uptown Mall Cinema provides a 24 hour screening during weekends. You can lie back on their cozy La-Z-Boy seats and enjoy elegant service with your lover.

If you want to take your movie experience to the next level, go to McKinley Hill Float-In Cinema, located in Venice Grand Canal. The dining and shopping complex is a true-to-life replica of the famous Italian city, making it the ultimate date destination in the area.

They have a large screen right in the middle of the water where you can watch from your Venetian gondola.

Wine, beer, or whiskey tasting

Here’s a unique idea for a date - getting educated on the finer details of distilling. Learn how to distinguish wines and other liquor through tasting sessions and classes.

Where to take her: Estate Wine in Manila holds classes and tastings, among other fancy wine events every now and then. They are open everyday. Another one is Dr. Wine which is located in the heart of the metro. They stay true to their name because they can cure your heart with no prescription needed.

There are a lot of places that do alcohol tasting. But once you get the hang of it, you can hold tasting sessions in your own home. To have the full experience, serve chips, nuts, and hors d’oeuvres.

Indoor Wall climbing

If you want to feel like a real-life Spiderman, then try wall climbing.

Seriously though, if you are interested in wall climbing but are afraid to try it outside or in the mountains, indoor climbing is best for you. There are indoor wall climbing places that you can choose from.

Wall Climbing is an enjoyable experience for both beginners and experts. However, always make sure to have a guide around and never skip out on safety procedures.

Where to go: The Bouldering Hive and Climb Central Manila are two famous places in the Philippines where you can enjoy the thrill of rock climbing.

Go on a mountain hike

They say walking is an underrated form of exercise.

If you want to skip the gym but still stay active, plan out a hiking trip with your partner. You will get to see picturesque views and at the same time sweat a lot.

Trekking through mountain trails is an opportunity for you to talk nonstop with each other without any distractions. If you are romantic - and strong enough - you can try a couple of piggyback carries as well.

Where to take her: There are a lot of mountains near Metro Manila that are perfect for day trips. One is Mount Lumot in Bulacan. They offer a majestic view and activities such as camping and bird watching. The other one is Mount Maynoba-Cayabu Loop in Rizal. The river valley strikingly resembles an oil painting.

Stargazing

Is stargazing on the list of your romantic date ideas to go? Worry no more, you don’t have to go far away. You can soak in the breathtaking views and contemplate the universe at the Manila Conservatory.

What do you need to prepare ahead of time? You’ll have to check the weather and make sure to choose a date with clear skies.

Fun dates matter

Couples who make their dates as fun as possible experience greater affection and gratitude towards each other.

Some fun and lovable ladies choose activities that relieve stress and give them an escape from the drudgery of daily life.

Having fun as a couple matters. If you can’t enjoy good moments together, your relationship can end up feeling very dull and meaningless.

If you have a good thing going and want your relationship to last, don’t wait for signs of trouble. Spice up your life. Perhaps tonight, while sitting on the couch, look at your partner, smile, and say “Hey love, how about a fun date tomorrow?”